08 May 2005
I'm Shae, 35, and I live in Dayton, OH where I work as an administrative secretary in the subcontracts office of a university research institute.
As I type this I have been a widow for three months and one day.
Right now I am unable to define myself any other way. I'm a widow and it takes my breath and closes off my throat and squeezes everything else out of the way. Maybe one day this biography will include other things about me but right now this is it.